Elate: Dating & Relationships

Bored of swiping and sick of timewasters? Download Elate, made to make dating better.

Elate is a free dating app for singles looking for serious relationships, not hookups! With less ghosting, less swiping and fewer d*ckheads.

With unique features you won't find in apps like Hinge, Bumble or Tinder:

THREE CHATS AT A TIME

Less is more so chat with just three matches at a time for better conversations and less ghosting. The rest wait in your match queue until you both have a space to chat.

QUALITY OVER QUANTITY

We bring you a daily selection of highly curated recommendations, so you can spend more time chatting and less time endlessly swiping.

MATCHED ON MORE THAN LOOKS

It’s easy to find someone you fancy, but harder to find someone you like. So we match you on personality, values, interests AND looks.

ANTI-GHOSTING

We let you know if your date has moved on to chat with someone new, so you always know where you stand and aren’t left wondering and waiting.

ZERO-TOLERANCE ON D*CKHEADS

We have a zero-tolerance, one-strike and you’re out policy for any type of harassment reported. No exceptions!

AI MATCHMAKER & DATING COACH

Meet Dara, your personal dating assistant! Dara can help you with everything from improving your profile on any dating app, coming up with date ideas, or even your rizz with help for your message openers and replies!

Don’t hinge your dating and relationship success on apps that rely on endless options instead of curated recommendations.

Use an app with fewer timewasters or superficial matches that never say anything.

Download Elate (elatedate), made to make dating and relationships better.